
Many people treat complete strangers more politely than they do their own family members. It’s likely the result of taking those you are closest to for granted, but isn’t it sad that those you love most get the “casual” side of you- you know, the side that shows stress, impatience, annoyance, and frustration- while everyone […]






I love this. Our pastor talks about the same thing a lot. It is very true that people tend to unload to their family and not treat them with respect but we should all strive to not do this because they are the ones that truly matter.
I was just going to say the same thing as Shana-I love this.
Thanks so much for writng this. It is full of wisdom and common sense and I want to save it because it is wonderful to remember and do.
Love your blog for articles like this. Keep them coming-we all need them!
I am loving your posts about family, love, marriage! Truly amazing. I completely agree with you here, and it’s sad but again this is what my brother does. Treats his family like crap and loves everyone around him, friends, co-workers, sports buddies etc. I’m about to give him your blog address to give him some tips!
Wise words Penelope. Thank you. I too am really enjoying these posts!
Also, a beautiful photo of you and your men.
I love this. Often in relationships, the unity gets lost, replaced by only interest in the self, and everyone suffers. Thanks for this lovely and eloquent reminder that we are stronger when turning to each other, rather than on each other.
Your pastor is a smart man. Our priest is very inspired and speaks about marriage as well- I love when a respected man speaks man to man to other husbands…men and women should both cherish each other.
Thank you Carol, that makes me so happy to hear 🙂
Nichol, you are so cute 🙂 He may be turned off by the butterflies, but hopefully something gets through to him. When life happens, it will be his wife and children who are there, not his coworkers and sports buddies.
Thank you, Fiona.
RIGHT ON Penelope! I want to PROTECT our TIME. It is sacred and I do not like it when I feel pressured to allow others to intrude on my family.
This is a wonderful post.
Lovely post – your son is getting so big!
I love this list! My husband and I read about the “royal we” a long time ago. The idea is that the husband and wife are the most important. We’re the king and queen – if something doesn’t help us in our relationship, it’s out. We have very tight boundaries and it does make us happy. It doesn’t always make the in-laws and demanding friends happy, but over time they’ve learned to demand less.
I just want to tell you that I’m very new to blogging and absolutely loved you’re web site.
This is very sweet. Make you think about the important things in life.
Just finished reading a book about boundaries and need to create an action plan!
Thank you for this wonderful blog. Very good read. I am guilty for some that you mentioned here. I will go start changing my attitude for the better. FAMILY FIRST.
It is so true that in modern hectic lives our families are not treated as well as they should be.
I love this post Penelope!
That’s good advice. I think that for some people, after being married for quite some time, they take for granted what is before them.
EXACTLY!!!!!! My husband and I (from day one) have been VERY careful not to establish solo friendships with people of the opposite sex. We have couple-friends, or girlfriends (for me), or buddies (for him), but we don’t ever let ourselves get into a friendship with someone of the opposite sex who is NOT friends with our spouse too. It’s too easy to go down a slippery slope and we don’t ever intend on making that journey.