
When you find the person you are going to marry, there is a sense of excitement and happiness. You feel as though you found your match, the person who completes you, and nothing else matters as long as you are together. You found someone who loves you as you are, and whom you can’t imagine […]



Argh. I always seem to make it by on Monday. Think the Lord is trying to tell me something?
Wow, it was kinda hard reading this weeks.
I definitely need to change a few things ๐
Great post Penelope! Is it because girls are so intent on getting to that wedding that they lose sight of why they wanted to be married in the first place? I do worry about these things as I see the relationships that are crumbling after that perfect wedding day and I hope to remind myself that a wedding is not the end, but just the beginning.
This is a wonderful idea! It is so easy to change into just one.
Wow, that is definitely something to think about – and so incredibly true how things change!!
Great post – I think we all need to be a Bride again for our husbands.
LOVE this!!! I think I am still his bride, but yes, MANY times just the wife! I really need to work on this and what a fun way to do it ๐
What a wonderful assignment! When I realized the I was the problem in my marriage, and started looking at what I was doing instead of harping on what HE was doing, life got easier. I also realized I wasn’t ENJOYING my marriage. I changed. (and still am) Hubby? Not so much, and it really doesn’t matter. What is that verse that says a man would rather live in a shack than in a fancy house with a groucy wife? True, so true! God bless you in your journey!
oh my goodness Penelope – God laid this tip on my heart the day I married my husband! (i’m gonna try and not write a book here, but I have to share!)
My mom was in a very bad marriage (mostly her fault for marrying that guy). Needless to say I had to be SURE I knew why I was marrying Josh. I wrote down all the reasons and continued to go to them every time I got frustrated. It really has helped! And I heard someone say that the reason you married him can become one of your biggest annoyances about him – well I am going to work super hard to make sure that does not happen.
One of the most widely used phrases I say to Josh is, “That’s why I married you!” I am not kidding! It is such a great thing to remind yourself, wonderful advice this week Penelope!
that is really something to think about.
thanks for this great idea! thanks for this thought-provoking post.
I also thank you for your lovely comments.
I love your blog. It’s really awesome!!
Penelope, I’ve been married to my husband Alex for nearly 22 years. We still show each other the same courtesies we did when dating. He still opens car doors for me, and I still cover him with an afghan if he’s napping. Perhaps the romance part is not as “red hot” as it was when it was all new, but the everyday love is even more important. He loves to eat and I love to cook. He loves his job and I love the lifestyle we can afford. I think you really hit on some important points in this article! Very nicely done.
This entire site is wonderful!
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